change

                

                   When was the last time you thought to yourself that you needed to change your hairstyle and actually come about doing it?When was the last time you changed that old,worn out pair of shoe you have on for as long as you can remember?When was the last time u changed your handphone coz the old one was starting to give your problems?When was the last time you had to change your lifestyle because the lifestyle u are currently having is spoiling either your lungs or your liver or your heart?
                 I use to think that changes were good…well,at least ppl tell me that changes are good…But are they really good?Sumtimes we do realize that some people,instead change for the better,has change for the worst.Its funny how people can change from one extreme to another…one minute they are your best of best friends and the next moment, KA-BOOM…they are stabbing you from behind…One minute,you are laughing away with them,the other minute,you are yelling at each other and probably wont talk to each other anymore..
                 But i somehow  feel that changes are important,depending on what kind of change it is,i guess…The change should make you a better person all together,right?Years back,i always wanted to change my eating habit,since i was bigger last time…never got around doing it coz i was just plain lazy to get up from my comfort zone…til i started fasting and thats when i realize that change will only happen if u start trying…and thats when i begin to slowly change my eating habit,and lost about 15kg…but sad to say now,i lost that determination to eat almost nothing for the day…haha…so to change,u will need to get out from that comfort zone…it might be,being on that cozy bed,sleeping all day long or the feeling of familiarity of the things around that prevents u from changing…Then as you get up from that comfort zone,change must take place slowly but surely,you will see the results soon..and alot of determination must follow that…if there isnt any determination,then you will fall back into that comfort zone again…

                 What changes are good u may ask me now…well,changing to a better person means treating other people better…making them smile and when you begin to care for other people more than u care for yourself…when your vocabulary has more YOU in it and less ME or I.Changing for a better person means quiting smoking esp after being told by your friends or loved ones so many times…Having a healthy lifestyle of exercising at least 30 mins a day and chose to eat more greens and drink more plain water…Change to be a more generous person,giving to others,esp when they are in need…And at the same time learn to receive too :)….Changes will only take place after you decide what and in which area you should change…List them down and start by slowly changing,step by step…
                 So im determined to change to be a better person…smile more,love more and care more…  I dont want my frens to end up talking about how much i changed for the worst…instead i wanna leave a lasting impression on ppl,a good one…haha…
                  Til then,i think i must CHANGE the stupid   alanis morrissette song playing on my laptop…Its spoiling my calm mood…Tata
            
 

4 Responses to “change”

  1. sourab Says:

    Hey,u really think,quittin smokin makes a person better,i mean diff from wat he s,think u r wrong there…..a character holds a habit but one single habit doesnt decide a character,wat say?

  2. Adriiiieeeee Says:

    hmmm…u got me there….i guess its true but then again,smoking IS really bad and well,as a matter of fact i do not like being in the presence of smokers…haha…(no offeence)wat i meant here by being a better person here is the self-fulfilment of one feels that he has finally achieve sumthing good.but do u know by quiting smoking,one shows that he is actually capable to mastering self-control and self determination,which many of us still lack(talking bout myself too) and i think that is already being a better person in character…

  3. Jann Han Says:

    oi…alanis morissette rocks! hehe

  4. Adriiiieeeee Says:

    i know she does…one of my favourite female singers actually…hehe…just her you ought to know song can get pretty irritating at times…hehe
    wish i could play the harmonica

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